Thursday, April 3, 2008

Is Hubby The One??

Nothing is more exciting knowing that i will become a mother soon. scary but at the same time overexcited. And most of all, i will be the mother of my dear husband's child- which i have never imagined during my study year in U.

I was in love with someone else since my matrics years through my third year in U. Of course, like others, i was expected to end the friendship with a successful marriage arrangement. But, when he proposed, i was absolutely not ready and i declined the offer for many reasons. I did love him but not to the point of spending my time with him for the rest of my remaining years. Well, people think i am stupid for declining a proposal from a romantic future lawyer. But, i finally ended up marrying my husband despite all the hardships before marrying him and to accept his not-so-romantic characters. But, that is what i called FATE. How do i know he is THE ONE?

Frankly, I DON'T. What i DO know- he cares for me, he faces the hardships firmly, he argues with me constantly, he lets me be my-chubby-self, he makes the best beef burger ever, he gets jealous when i talk about someone else, he phones me at least 3 times daily, he calls me his chubby fav girl, he talks less and listens more, he learns what i like and dislike and most importantly, he never forgets any important dates that involve me... hehe.

Of course, being the one with higher education level, i sometimes encounter problems in making him understand and accepting few facts in life surrounding us. But, that is life. I don't expect to live in a world of fantasy where everything is so perfect and great at all times. Surely, i must have learnt something useful from him and vice versa. So, just enjoy the moment of love and happiness while i can. Because i can't gurantee, this love is going smooth in the future. There will be more obstacles in keeping this marriage together.

Well, being pregnant with his baby will be a strong starting point to keep us closer and more attached to each other. Love u babe, thanks for being my 'Romeo'.